Breaking Free from Familiarity: How To Disappear and Transform Yourself
Have you become too common and predictable in the eyes of those around you? If so, it may be time to go underground, become uncommon, work on yourself, and reemerge as a transformed individual. There was a time when I was too predictable, too common. My life had become an open book to everyone in my locality—whether it was at the local bar, my neighborhood, or even among those who pretended to be my friends. They knew too much about me, my routines, my thoughts, and my plans. It was as if I had lost my mystery, and with it, my power. That’s when I realized something had to change. I needed to disappear, to become uncommon, unpredictable, and reclaim my sense of self. It's then I realized that there’s a certain power in disappearing and working in the shadows: Become a mystery to everyone The more you expose your life to the public, the more opportunities others have to drag you down. It’s a natural sociological phenomenon. Becoming unavailable and committing to personal g...